OCTOBER 2009 BLOG
Finally Mercury has gone direct...... On the 12th Jupiter will follow, so our communications &
our money challenges will start to improve. The next few months we can see some small gains in both areas; however' it may
be the New Year before we really see major change.
I am writing my apology now because I'll try not to get on too much of a soap box about my rant for
this month's blog. Most of the time I write based on client issues that resonate repeatedly through the month.
SO HERE IS THE DEAL: RELATIONSHIPS!! I'm so
amazed how adults in relationships totally forget that they're an individual person. How do we have a life and identity
prior to this person coming into our lives? Then all of a sudden we lose our sense of self? When the relationship goes
south, we go for Prozac. Come on... it's not the end of the world!
Has it become a total taboo to be an independent self-reliant man or woman that is not
in a serious relationship? Have we become so insecure that we feel that we're nothing if we don't have a girlfriend or boyfriend?
This really isn't just about singles either... You would not believe how many people who are in relationships or married are
wanting to know if they're going to meet someone before they dump the loser they're with! WTF People? Jumping
from relationship to relationship before you end or complete a chapter is just delaying the ability to meet a long-term person.
Hence this is repeating a pattern.
If
you have a need to rescue or take care of someone; realize that once they're on their feet, the odds are 100 to 1 that they'll
leave you. People are not Projects!
If you're hearing the excuse of "I can't make a move because of money reasons or
the kids", or "you're being used for sex", make sure he or she is worth taking yourself off the market for.
If he or she has a profile on Myspace
or Facebook, or texting other men or woman YOU NEED TO BE CONCERNED! Unless, you have an "ALL-ACCESS" Pass to their
sites & can check up on them if you wanted.
The one who is guilty is the accuser. Guilt is a true give away that something is up
If you don't respect yourself, the person
you're with will not treat you with respect.
The one I really love is: the one who is already moved on but gets upset that the person they're fooling around
on is really not going to chase, come after, or wait for them to stop screwing around and get their head on straight! The
‘deer in headlights' look is priceless. LOL! It is okay for them, but not the one they have already screwed around
on.
The Number 1 is: the
person who is with another person who is with another person. I think we call that an AFFAIR! Needless to say we're
all having an orgy but no one is sharing. Better yet, the other's other has no idea, it's a fantasy orgy... I Think?
SOOOO> Dating means being single
and enjoying all of the benefits of getting to know one another and determining, what type of person and relationship you
need in your life. Dating does mean that you can be intimate, but intimacy between consenting adults is not LOVE.
Married or in a serious committed
relationship means that you are ONLY intimate with the one you're emotionally devoting your time to and planning a future
together. All relationships go through ups and downs especially on the sexual level- so experiment, play, get into your partner
before you decide to screw around. If you're not on the same level, move on and let both of you find the person that is out
there waiting. We all have that special someone.
If you're in a relationship that has some of the symptoms of the above referenced statements, you may
need to look at what's in your best interest and take a leap of faith.
You won't be sorry if you can be patient. Just take the time to hold out for what you
want.
Timing is the key, not how you meet that Soul Mate.
"Every moment of your life is infinitely creative
and the universe is endlessly bountiful.
Just put forth a clear
enough request, and everything your heart desires must come to you"
by Shakti Gwain, Creative Visualization
Until next month!
L
